Thoughts influence our feelings. The connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. ABC CBT worksheet. A. Activating Event B. How did I feel, what did I do C. You can say a feeling in one word, but if it starts turning into a phrase or sentence, it's probably a thought. The levels of responsibility: 1. The unforseeable -> No way to predict it would happen -> Grief/sadness 2. Responsibility -> Played a role in the event, but didn't intend the outcome -> Regret 3. Fault/blameworthiness -> Intended harm; intended the outcome -> Guilt # The ABC Worksheet 1. Activating event: "*Something happens*" - What was the thing that happened 2. Believe/Stuck point