diff --git a/personal/mental health/Coping Skills.md b/personal/mental health/Coping Skills.md index ede9f8e..ae6e453 100644 --- a/personal/mental health/Coping Skills.md +++ b/personal/mental health/Coping Skills.md @@ -1,3 +1,20 @@ Anxiety can be magnified by irrational thoughts. For example, the thoughts that "something bad will happen", or "I will make a mistake" might lack evidence, but still have a real impact on how you feel. By examining the evidence and challenging these thoughts, you can reduce anxiety. -## Put thoughts on trial \ No newline at end of file +## Put thoughts on trial +Choose a thought that has contributed to your anxiety. Gather evidence in support of your thought (*verifiable facts only*), and against your thought. Compare the evidence and determine whether your thought is accurate or not. + +## Use Socratic questioning +Question the thoughts that contribute to your anxiety. Ask yourself: +- "Is my thought based on facts or feelings?" +- "How would my best friend see this situation?" +- "How likely is it that my fear will come true?" +- "What's the most *likely* to happen?" +- "If my fear comes true, will it still matter in a week? A month? A year?" +## Imagery +Your thoughts have the power to change how you feel. If you think of something sad, it's likely you'll start to feel sad. The opposite is also true: When you think of something positive or calming, you feel relaxed. The imagery technique harnesses this power to reduce anxiety. + +Think of a place you find comforting. It could be a secluded beach, your bedroom, a quiet mountaintop, or even a loud concert. For 5 to 10 minutes, use *all* your senses to imagine this setting in great detail. Don't just think fleetingly about this place - really imagine it. + +- What do you see around you? What do you notice in the distance? Look all around to take in all your surroundings. Look for small details you would usually miss. +- What sounds can you hear? Are they loud or soft? Listen closely to everything around you. Keep listening to see if you notice any distant sounds. +- Are you eating or drinking something enjoyable? What is the flavor \ No newline at end of file