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From: zleyyij <75810274+zleyyij@users.noreply.github.com>
Date: Wed, 17 Jul 2024 09:48:18 -0600
Subject: [PATCH] vault backup: 2024-07-17 09:48:18

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@@ -31,11 +31,15 @@ A boundary is only meaningful *if you enforce it*. In the above example, that wo
 
 When we set a boundary, we are making it clear what *our* actions will be. Therefore, boundaries are more enforceable, and the outcome is within our control.
 
-If we make a request and the other party is unwilling or unable to meet it, you *must* accept their answer. You cannot force something from someone who is unable or unwilling to give more. Don't give into the illusion that
+If we make a request and the other party is unwilling or unable to meet it, you *must* accept their answer. You cannot force something from someone who is unable or unwilling to give more. Don't give into the illusion that if we ask a *17th time*, then they'll give in and become receptive to our needs.
 
+At this point, we have two choices.
+1. We can accept that *in this circumsta*
 ## Ultimatum
 
 
+## Having questions
+
 # Resources
 https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-truth-about-boundaries/
 https://www.gottman.com/blog/requests-vs-boundaries-vs-ultimatums-the-ultimate-guide/
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