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@@ -83,5 +83,7 @@ It's surprisingly rare for this to happen. People will often leave a problem vag
 
 If you can't simplify the topic, you probably aren't ready to have that conversation. Figure out how to simplify it, then you can decide what your next steps are.
 
-### Work on yourself first
-Remember
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+#### What do you *reral*
+*The only person you can control directly is yourself. *
+
+Ask yourself
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